Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Bitter B-Words...

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She's "bitter"
Maybe because you quit her
Or maybe because you hit her
But those are things she should get over right?
Just ignore all the hard work and sleepless nights?
Lets not forget all the texts messages and phone calls that led to fights
She loved you the best way she knew how but that wasn't enough
She tried to hold on to the memories but disrespect became too much
She tried walking away from you, but when you noticed you held on tighter
You sold her dreams of a better day, and reminded her that she was a fighter
So she stayed
Only again, to be embarrassed and played
Her "Knight and Shining Armor" turned into the Joker
He broke down the walls she built from her past hurt, only to make a joke out of her
She didn't break her own heart, or maybe she did because she stayed too long
She believes that time will heal all wounds and one day this situation will make her strong


How can a person go through so much and be expected to just "get over it". When you give your all to a person and it is not returned, you are drained. When you are the only person fighting for the relationship that 2 people built but one person is destroying, you feel pain. I do not understand why so many people call females "bitter" because they aren't "over" a situation, or over a relationship. Hurt doesn't go away overnight. 

You have to work through things, not just "get over " them. 
You don't know her story. You have no idea what she went through in that relationship. So, before you call her bitter, before you judge her, before you decided that you are an expert of her life, get to know her. Understand her story. I am not saying that there are no bitter people in the world, but those people have stories...You think you know, but you have no idea!